Dissapointed in some of the actions of some girls at the festival. Respect others!

[cdav25]

My wife and I treated ourselves to a "kid free" weekend and attended this years Stagecoach music festival. Overall we had a wonderful time. Sadly our first night we had some trouble..which is why I am writing.
We had been sitting for hours in a nice spot, we could see the screen sitting in our chairs and enjoy the music. (we are in our mid 30's)
As the evening progressed these girls who somehow were attached to the group sitting next to us showed up. They had to be younger than 21 as everyone over 21 had the wristbands to drink and had this group been old enough to drink, they'd have had the bands. Anyway, my wife is a Desert Storm Nurse Veteran, she has had 15 knee surgerys and has back problems due to her military carreer and is unable to stand for long periods, which is why we chose the spot we did so she could sit and enjoy the show.
About half way through John Fogerty the group made their way between the people's chair in front of us and our blanket. They began dancing and jumping around screaming and stayed there. We could no longer see from our seated position. We asked nicely if they wouldn't mind moving over and explained my wifes reasons for needing to sit. We were ignored.
We asked again if they would move and were told to "party, wooooo, why would we want to sit"
This was upsetting and angered by their disrespect we went to find an event staff/security guard to assist us. All we were asking is for them to move into the 8X5 spot they had and allow us to enjoy the concert seated. They then said we could move in front of them if we were going to continue complaining, and we did just to salvage the evening.
Things would have been fine from there if they had left us alone.
They began taunting my wife and I. Screaming "B*#CH" and "You're such a awful person,why can't you have fun" and "f-ing this and that" This bordered on insane. We simply asked for some kindness and understanding.
We ended up having to get the police to come over and tell them to knock it off. This was our special weekend and these girls gave it a rough start.
They should be ashamed of their actions. If our daughter ever disrespected someone this way I'd be dissapointed.
We didn't ask them to leave, just move over into the large space they had rather than being in a line in front of us.
Everyone..respect your fellow concert goers, you all paid the same to get in (turns out this group had won free tickets on the radio, figures)
Let everyone enjoy the show, and if someone is disabled for any reason..
respect their needs as some day you may need someone to do the same for you.

[sunkisses]

My heart goes out to you...my husband is also disabled and people can be so cruel. Doesn't bode well for our future, does it?

[cdav25]

Thanks Sunkisses. I hope if others read this maybe it will have a "pay it forward" effect and we can all show each other some kindness and respect in the places we go and in dealing with others. It would make the world a better place.

[horsephotographer]

My wife and I treated ourselves to a "kid free" weekend and attended this years Stagecoach music festival. Overall we had a wonderful time. Sadly our first night we had some trouble..which is why I am writing.
We had been sitting for hours in a nice spot, we could see the screen sitting in our chairs and enjoy the music. (we are in our mid 30's)
As the evening progressed these girls who somehow were attached to the group sitting next to us showed up. They had to be younger than 21 as everyone over 21 had the wristbands to drink and had this group been old enough to drink, they'd have had the bands. Anyway, my wife is a Desert Storm Nurse Veteran, she has had 15 knee surgerys and has back problems due to her military carreer and is unable to stand for long periods, which is why we chose the spot we did so she could sit and enjoy the show.
About half way through John Fogerty the group made their way between the people's chair in front of us and our blanket. They began dancing and jumping around screaming and stayed there. We could no longer see from our seated position. We asked nicely if they wouldn't mind moving over and explained my wifes reasons for needing to sit. We were ignored.
We asked again if they would move and were told to "party, wooooo, why would we want to sit"
This was upsetting and angered by their disrespect we went to find an event staff/security guard to assist us. All we were asking is for them to move into the 8X5 spot they had and allow us to enjoy the concert seated. They then said we could move in front of them if we were going to continue complaining, and we did just to salvage the evening.
Things would have been fine from there if they had left us alone.
They began taunting my wife and I. Screaming "B*#CH" and "You're such a awful person,why can't you have fun" and "f-ing this and that" This bordered on insane. We simply asked for some kindness and understanding.
We ended up having to get the police to come over and tell them to knock it off. This was our special weekend and these girls gave it a rough start.
They should be ashamed of their actions. If our daughter ever disrespected someone this way I'd be dissapointed.
We didn't ask them to leave, just move over into the large space they had rather than being in a line in front of us.
Everyone..respect your fellow concert goers, you all paid the same to get in (turns out this group had won free tickets on the radio, figures)
Let everyone enjoy the show, and if someone is disabled for any reason..
respect their needs as some day you may need someone to do the same for you.

Pepole are getting worse and worse in this world and respect is hard to find.So many only think of themselfs...
Sad ......

[horsephotographer]

Thanks Sunkisses. I hope if others read this maybe it will have a "pay it forward" effect and we can all show each other some kindness and respect in the places we go and in dealing with others. It would make the world a better place.

yes...
I hope so.But its hard to teach a spoiled dog new tricks....
Guess it's the family life they come from ...
Mom's and dads acting like children breeds quite a new generation...
If they only new how classless they look in others eyes....
I look at the young stars and it is sad they don't understand money can't buy class...
Oh well maybe this eye opener will give them a second thought..
OOH was that to long of a post?
Hope the brownie leader is in bed....

[bayareagirl16]

This is exactly why parents should be able to disapline their children! If they don't the kids grow up to be spoiled, disrespectful, snots that shouldn't be allowed in public. I'm embarassed to be of around the same age as them. I hope your next Stagecoach experience is much better.

[sunkisses]

Most of the 20 something girls there looked like skanks dressed in what I would describe as eye patches for a bathing suit top and a sweatband as a "skirt". Leaves little to the imagination. I doubt these are the kind of girls the guys will take home to meet Mother...more to take home for the night.

[10-6 mommy]

Wow!!! That is sooooo unfortunate that, ...... you and your husband I mean Wife well which one of you ladies call yourself the husband and which one is the wife ????? We respect people who respect us and themselves which you clearly do not!!! Those horrible people that treated you GIRLS so bad were at that spot first and ended up asking you GIRLS if you would like to move in front of them. Not everyone in the party had won free tickets in fact the young ladies who you are talking about were in fact all over 21, and paid over $2000.00 for their tickets. Maybe when you want people to feel sorry for you, you should tell the story how it really was. It's hard to show respect to couples of the same sex, especially when they are cry babies. I have a question, How did the child come about cause I always thought it took a man and a women to have a child? Happy Mothers day to the both of you!!!

[heavenlymoon76]

10-6 mommy, you do your friends no justice with that post. Everyone deserves respect no matter what their sexual preference may be!

I have a question, How did the child come about cause I always thought it took a man and a women to have a child?

Ridiculously unintelligent!

[10-6 mommy]

so you have a wife too?

[heavenlymoon76]

[10-6 mommy]

maybe? you're not sure or did you mean may be, smarty

[riverbound]

Most of the 20 something girls there looked like skanks dressed in what I would describe as eye patches for a bathing suit top and a sweatband as a "skirt". Leaves little to the imagination. I doubt these are the kind of girls the guys will take home to meet Mother...more to take home for the night.

Those are my kind of women. and growing up ging to the river, I would have no problems bringing them home for the night or longer term. If they have the body for it, why not rock it. Im pretty sure you werent complaining about the guys walking around shirtless, etc....

[sunkisses]

Well they weren't walking around in the equivalent of an eyepatch for underwear....and if they were....not my kind of man. I have class AND taste. How do you like them apples?

Those are my kind of women. and growing up ging to the river, I would have no problems bringing them home for the night or longer term. If they have the body for it, why not rock it. Im pretty sure you werent complaining about the guys walking around shirtless, etc....

[riverbound]

Well they weren't walking around in the equivalent of an eyepatch for underwear....and if they were....not my kind of man. I have class AND taste. How do you like them apples?

Class and taste are subjective terms.

the only time I have ever heard someone complain about the clothing girls wear is from another female whos phyiscal build doesnt supprt that type of clothing...to each is own I guess.

My girl spends quite a bit of time being active in watersports and in the gym, the last thing I want her doing is hiding her hard wrok under frumpy clothing and granny panies


and thanks for the apples, I loved them

[horsephotographer]

Wow!!! That is sooooo unfortunate that, ...... you and your husband I mean Wife well which one of you ladies call yourself the husband and which one is the wife ????? We respect people who respect us and themselves which you clearly do not!!! Those horrible people that treated you GIRLS so bad were at that spot first and ended up asking you GIRLS if you would like to move in front of them. Not everyone in the party had won free tickets in fact the young ladies who you are talking about were in fact all over 21, and paid over $2000.00 for their tickets. Maybe when you want people to feel sorry for you, you should tell the story how it really was. It's hard to show respect to couples of the same sex, especially when they are cry babies. I have a question, How did the child come about cause I always thought it took a man and a women to have a child? Happy Mothers day to the both of you!!!

Are you on crack????
Or just trying to play along?????

[horsephotographer]

Class and taste are subjective terms.

the only time I have ever heard someone complain about the clothing girls wear is from another female who's physical build doesn't support that type of clothing...to each is own I guess.

My girl spends quite a bit of time being active in watersports and in the gym, the last thing I want her doing is hiding her hard wrok under frumpy clothing and granny panies


and thanks for the apples, I loved them

That's great if she can support a hard body... but the ones who think there hot and are in need desperately a plastic surgeon and none of there friends will tell them..
Those skanks gotta keep it covered to stop us from spitting out are 6.00 beer..
So costly ....
Yuck....
What a shame a mother wants her daughter to ask for something she may not want...
Sorry it is this world that needs to show there granny pants...
Your comment being a mother is just wrong.....
Really you should rethink that...
Yet class is so hard to find theses days....

OK sorry but your the mother I think there talking about....

Oh well to each is own my dear....
Just a little F.Y.I
Those are the ones they sleep with and dump for the good girls...
Re educate your daughter from your river ways there's still time....

[sunkisses]

You know, it's so hard to fight a battle of the wits with an unarmed man Sorry sunshine, you can't help the way you were made!

Class and taste are subjective terms.

the only time I have ever heard someone complain about the clothing girls wear is from another female whos phyiscal build doesnt supprt that type of clothing...to each is own I guess.

My girl spends quite a bit of time being active in watersports and in the gym, the last thing I want her doing is hiding her hard wrok under frumpy clothing and granny panies


and thanks for the apples, I loved them

[LadiesLoveCountryBoys]

my young adult daughters also spend time taking care of themselves and have amazing figures...but they also have enough class and self respect to have to show it to anyone and everyone...

[sunkisses]

Did you mean to say NOT to show it to anyone and everyone?

my young adult daughters also spend time taking care of themselves and have amazing figures...but they also have enough class and self respect to have to show it to anyone and everyone...