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festivalfan
05-04-2011, 09:46 AM
Ok... I just have to post this to see if anyone else is getting these. Fr the last couple weeks, and again today, I am getting random PM's. Odd questions, repetitive messaging from new members.

Each one is a different name, none of them have any post history, each one is asking me questions about things a newbie would not know.

Today was really interesting. If anyone else has received these, then you will know what I am talking about. And if anyone else has received any messages from newbies that seem unusual, let me know.

Think I have it figured out... but will wait a while and see if anyone else has a comment before I take the next step.

abra
05-04-2011, 09:53 AM
I got the guy that sent me a link to his new EP?

Rose
05-04-2011, 10:11 AM
Nope.

xniecex
05-04-2011, 10:45 AM
Ok... I just have to post this to see if anyone else is getting these. Fr the last couple weeks, and again today, I am getting random PM's. Odd questions, repetitive messaging from new members.

Each one is a different name, none of them have any post history, each one is asking me questions about things a newbie would not know.

Today was really interesting. If anyone else has received these, then you will know what I am talking about. And if anyone else has received any messages from newbies that seem unusual, let me know.

Think I have it figured out... but will wait a while and see if anyone else has a comment before I take the next step.

Me me me!!! No post history. A few pms exchanged with the same person tho. ??? I am sure its just a newbie... stalker style.... but a newbie to say the least:confused:

Cooter
05-04-2011, 11:23 AM
I got the guy that sent me a link to his new EP?

yeah, i replied to him with a "no thanks". not like he'll ever read it, though.

Raquellita
05-04-2011, 12:03 PM
Yes, me too

scarr
05-04-2011, 12:35 PM
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Rose
05-04-2011, 12:49 PM
Gotta bite...what in the world is an EP?

scarr
05-04-2011, 01:09 PM
Gotta bite...what in the world is an EP?

Extended play. A record with 3-5 songs on it.

Chevgirl357
05-04-2011, 01:48 PM
I have but not sure if it's the same guy as the rest of you. Talk to me FF, let's exchange info!

MISSMARIANNE
05-04-2011, 05:18 PM
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http://stagecoachfestival.com/forum/images/icons/icon1.gif CHECK OUT MY DEBUT EP!!!
GREETINGS FROM NASHVILLE TN,
FRENCHIE.
http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/far...ty/id432173339 (http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/farewell-to-sanity/id432173339)

I'm pretty sure this is Jack Ingram's lead guitar player. I just saw Jack Ingram @ The Pozo Stampede this past weekend and he introduced his guitar player as "Frenchie". He then says "play something greasy french fry" Ha-haa!

Missed Stagecoach this year....hope y'all had a blast!

IheartMillerLite
05-05-2011, 10:30 AM
I have but not sure if it's the same guy as the rest of you. Talk to me FF, let's exchange info!


He got to me too! I had to do some BLOCKING!!

Chevgirl357
05-05-2011, 12:46 PM
He got to me too! I had to do some BLOCKING!!

Well I'm callin him out. KMJ328 first contacted me to buy my GA ticket. Said his name was Kevin and asked for my number to coordinate a meetup. Randomly knew I lived in Costa Mesa (yeah, I know it's on my profile, but still weird). After that he began texting me and flirting and being weird. Then after saying his name was Kevin twice, then changed it to Keith and blamed autocorrect. I then told him I wasn't comfortable with selling him my ticket because he's talking to me like he knows me and it's weird. So you think that would be it, right? Nope!

He's been texting me AND PMing me takling about Stagecoach or just "hey" like we're friends. I haven't responded AT ALL. Think it's time to get Countrygurl in here!

IheartMillerLite
05-05-2011, 01:07 PM
I sent her a message telling her all about Keith. Or whatever his real name is. He told me he lived in Costa Mesa and then it turned into Long Beach. Started asking way too many personal questions and it freaked me out. Had to block him on AIM.

Chevgirl357
05-05-2011, 01:42 PM
I sent her a message telling her all about Keith. Or whatever his real name is. He told me he lived in Costa Mesa and then it turned into Long Beach. Started asking way too many personal questions and it freaked me out. Had to block him on AIM.

OMG, I am seriously a little freaked out by all that some of you have told me about this creep. I was about to meet up with the guy and sell him my ticket. I can't even imagine! This is more than just a troll, kinda scary!

xniecex
05-05-2011, 01:59 PM
OMG, I am seriously a little freaked out by all that some of you have told me about this creep. I was about to meet up with the guy and sell him my ticket. I can't even imagine! This is more than just a troll, kinda scary!

I know I never post. But this guy was PMing, me too. I got creeped when he sent me his number. And when he asked if i was ignoring him because i hadnt responded to a msg.

What I would suggest is looking at all your posts... I am guilty too... some times we put to much info out there not even realizing it. CREEPERS take to that... fast!! Put 2 and 2 together and now they "know" you. Sad but true.

I know at one time I was "talking" to someone I hadn't even met yet. And my after thoughts were WTH was I thinking. I told him about where I live. He knows I WALK to a certain gym at specific times. Holy moly. Left myself wiiiiiide open if he was a creeper. Be careful ladies, and gents too. :o

Oh!! And those handy dandy avatars..... yeah they know what you look like too!! Creepers!!

Chevgirl357
05-05-2011, 02:01 PM
I know I never post. But this guy was PMing, me too. I got creeped when he sent me his number. And when he asked if i was ignoring him because i hadnt responded to a msg.

What I would suggest is looking at all your posts... I am guilty too... some times we put to much info out there not even realizing it. CREEPERS take to that... fast!! Put 2 and 2 together and now they "know" you. Sad but true.

I know at one time I was "talking" to someone I hadn't even met yet. And my after thoughts were WTH was I thinking. I told him about where I live. He knows I WALK to a certain gym at specific times. Holy moly. Left myself wiiiiiide open if he was a creeper. Be careful ladies, and gents too. :o

Oh yeah, I KNOW I say a lot on here, it just never really clicked that somebody would read through THAT many posts, most of my more personal stuff is way older. I've never listed my address, but my phone number's on here, not worried about that. I'm pretty creeped out right now!

IheartMillerLite
05-05-2011, 02:30 PM
He won't stop!! He just PM'd me again asking if weren't talking anymore....

Who is this??

IheartMillerLite
05-05-2011, 02:34 PM
I know I never post. But this guy was PMing, me too. I got creeped when he sent me his number. And when he asked if i was ignoring him because i hadnt responded to a msg.

What I would suggest is looking at all your posts... I am guilty too... some times we put to much info out there not even realizing it. CREEPERS take to that... fast!! Put 2 and 2 together and now they "know" you. Sad but true.

I know at one time I was "talking" to someone I hadn't even met yet. And my after thoughts were WTH was I thinking. I told him about where I live. He knows I WALK to a certain gym at specific times. Holy moly. Left myself wiiiiiide open if he was a creeper. Be careful ladies, and gents too. :o

Oh!! And those handy dandy avatars..... yeah they know what you look like too!! Creepers!!

You're totally right. I have to be much more careful with whatever I say now. Creepers ruin it for everyone.

festivalfan
05-05-2011, 02:37 PM
He won't stop!! He just PM'd me again asking if weren't talking anymore....

Who is this??

I got them too.....

asking for info on back stage stuff... told him he needed to be verified, several pms later, he keeps asking what it means to be verified?
umm...a mug shot would work.

why don't you post on a thread you coward.

KittyLeigh
05-05-2011, 02:44 PM
I haven't received anything but did change some of the info that's on my profile here. We've been on here so long and have had the occasional jerk, but nothing creepy like this! Just takes one to ruin it for everyone! Stop it Creeper!!!!!

Chev - is it possible to remove the contact spreadsheet? Maybe we can delete the thread. Might be too late if already saved by him, but might not?!

Chevgirl357
05-05-2011, 03:15 PM
I haven't received anything but did change some of the info that's on my profile here. We've been on here so long and have had the occasional jerk, but nothing creepy like this! Just takes one to ruin it for everyone! Stop it Creeper!!!!!

Chev - is it possible to remove the contact spreadsheet? Maybe we can delete the thread. Might be too late if already saved by him, but might not?!

I've tried editing it out and it won't let me, and I'm not sure how to delete the thread, but I've looked and can't find a button. I think it's up to the moderator's, hopefully they respond SOON!

deegee83
05-05-2011, 05:13 PM
I got a PM from a guy wanting me to check out his "ep". Is that the new code for he wants me to check out his "enhanced package?" Cuz he don't know who he's PMing here. rawr.

IheartMillerLite
05-06-2011, 08:50 AM
hahahah I think that was a different guy. This one acts like he knows you, flirts with you and asks lots of personal questions. CREEPER!!

reising22
05-06-2011, 09:05 AM
I have been getting the same PM's from both people!!! I just got one this morning from that KMJ328 Help!

Chevgirl357
05-06-2011, 09:18 AM
I have been getting the same PM's from both people!!! I just got one this morning from that KMJ328 Help!

I'm actually a little worried you guys. Ok, a lot worried. If this guy is genuinely out to do harm, there is a LOT of info on here (including upcoming meetups) that we are easily identifiable in. Can we move discussions of future concerts and meetups to FB? And maybe go edit our posts on the other thread about it? I am like seriously a little scared, people are CRAZY.

festivalfan
05-06-2011, 09:28 AM
I'm actually a little worried you guys. Ok, a lot worried. If this guy is genuinely out to do harm, there is a LOT of info on here (including upcoming meetups) that we are easily identifiable in. Can we move discussions of future concerts and meetups to FB? And maybe go edit our posts on the other thread about it? I am like seriously a little scared, people are CRAZY.

I hate being RUN OFF by a poster....he should be run off.
betcha now that this is PUBLIC he wont try anything...
I have friends I travel with... Smith-Wesson and Colt. Chev- who do you travel with?

any word from CountryGurl?

Rose
05-06-2011, 09:40 AM
I hate being RUN OFF by a poster....he should be run off.
betcha now that this is PUBLIC he wont try anything...
I have friends I travel with... Smith-Wesson and Colt. Chev- who do you travel with?

any word from CountryGurl?

No need to run or hide FF. If someone really wants to find you they will. Changing your life and being affraid means they win. Just make sure you are never alone (like you already do). Meet in groups with TONS of others around. Always have your phone with you ready for 911. Don't PM people on here or answer their questions. I always refer people to Countrygurl and leave it at that. Facebook is no exception, even when you have your profile set to private. If you are that affraid of people then you should stay off the internet all together (especially twitter). All Iphones have installed a tracking device.

festivalfan
05-06-2011, 09:46 AM
No need to run or hide FF. If someone really wants to find you they will. Changing your life and being affraid means they win. Just make sure you are never alone (like you already do). Meet in groups with TONS of others around. Always have your phone with you ready for 911. Don't PM people on here or answer their questions. I always refer people to Countrygurl and leave it at that. Facebook is no exception, even when you have your profile set to private. If you are that affraid of people then you should stay off the internet all together (especially twitter). All Iphones have installed a tracking device.

I know...I agree with everything you said
I'm not going to even acknowledge him anymore. I reported him to the moderator.

ignore button on... poster now blocked.

Chevgirl357
05-06-2011, 10:06 AM
No need to run or hide FF. If someone really wants to find you they will. Changing your life and being affraid means they win. Just make sure you are never alone (like you already do). Meet in groups with TONS of others around. Always have your phone with you ready for 911. Don't PM people on here or answer their questions. I always refer people to Countrygurl and leave it at that. Facebook is no exception, even when you have your profile set to private. If you are that affraid of people then you should stay off the internet all together (especially twitter). All Iphones have installed a tracking device.

I almost take offense to that. This guy asked to meet up with me. I don't need to stay off the internet, I think maybe I was just a little naive before with my openness, and I will definitely be more guarded. My FB is locked down, not worried about that. And yeah, I'm afraid, because of all of the crazy things that go on with crazy people. I think it would be stupid to NOT be a little worried to be honest. And meeting in groups with TONS of other people isn't always possible. I don't want to alter everything in my life, just be a little more cautious, and posting exactly where I'm going to be meeting up with people and what time is probably not the smartest thing when we don't know what kind of weirdo we're dealing with on here. Could be a harmless troll, could be more, but I'm not gonna mess around and find out.

Cooter
05-06-2011, 10:14 AM
at least he came out and you know he's crazy, but people don't even have to be a member to read posts here, so who knows who else lurks around here.

Rose
05-06-2011, 10:37 AM
I almost take offense to that.

I was not talking to you. FF = Festival Fan

Rose
05-06-2011, 10:42 AM
at least he came out and you know he's crazy, but people don't even have to be a member to read posts here, so who knows who else lurks around here.

KMJ328 - He was just logged in a few minutes ago. I'm glad people are putting out the 411 on this creeper.

IheartMillerLite
05-06-2011, 10:54 AM
He's definitely a stalker. Ignore him Reising! I reported him to Countrygurl, put him on my block list here and blocked him on AIM. I am definitely gonna be more aware with what I say on here...not posting seats or sections anymore, that's for sure.

kmj328
05-06-2011, 11:41 AM
Hi All,

My name is Keith, and I do apologize for the messages you have all been receiving from me. There was never any malintent or anything like that. Honestly I was just looking to talk to people that were at stage coach like that. I did not even notice there was this post until someone pointed it out to me. Again I do apologize to each and every one of you, as I did not know there was an issue with me sending you messages. If anyone has any issues please let me know. and again, I truely do apologize and hope everyone has a great mothers day weekend and go stagecoach!

kmj328
05-06-2011, 11:45 AM
Hi all, posting again, just wanted to tell you all I feel terrible and I really didnt know I was hurting anyone. I promise to leave this site alone completely. So all of you stay country strong and have a great weekend!

gaypalmsprings
05-06-2011, 05:14 PM
No one has PM'd me.

I did have a weird BM this morning, though. Does that count?

gaypalmsprings
05-06-2011, 05:15 PM
Hi all, posting again, just wanted to tell you all I feel terrible and I really didnt know I was hurting anyone. I promise to leave this site alone completely. So all of you stay country strong and have a great weekend!

Stick around and chat. We are friendly.

Nayastar
05-06-2011, 08:44 PM
Hi all, posting again, just wanted to tell you all I feel terrible and I really didnt know I was hurting anyone. I promise to leave this site alone completely. So all of you stay country strong and have a great weekend!

I received a few PM's, but wasn't offended at all.

Chevgirl357
05-09-2011, 08:12 AM
I received a few PM's, but wasn't offended at all.

You weren't in the group of PM's and texts that crossed the line, and there was definitely a line crossed.

Raquellita
05-09-2011, 11:26 AM
No one has PM'd me.

I did have a weird BM this morning, though. Does that count?

I really don't think that counts. Is IS funny as heck though.

Janell24
05-09-2011, 11:00 PM
GUITARFRENCHIE (http://stagecoachfestival.com/forum/member.php?u=6107)
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http://stagecoachfestival.com/forum/images/icons/icon1.gif CHECK OUT MY DEBUT EP!!!
GREETINGS FROM NASHVILLE TN,
FRENCHIE.
http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/far...ty/id432173339 (http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/farewell-to-sanity/id432173339)

I got this one awhile ago. There has been post's about laptops too.

Countrygurl
05-12-2011, 03:55 PM
you guys need to report that stuff so they can be deleted and banned. thanks

IheartMillerLite
05-13-2011, 07:22 AM
I DID send you a PM about him...

festivalfan
05-13-2011, 08:15 AM
I DID send you a PM about him...

me too !!

scarr
05-13-2011, 09:13 AM
you guys need to report that stuff so they can be deleted and banned. thanks


I can't find the report SPAM button!

Rose
05-13-2011, 09:45 AM
I can't find the report SPAM button!

Bottom left. It's the triangle button that is red and white. When you cursor over it, it says "report post".

P.S. It was great to finally meet you in person Scarr.

xniecex
05-13-2011, 10:57 AM
I DID send you a PM about him...

I don't know that she was talking about the creeper. I think she was talking about the spammer :o

IheartMillerLite
05-13-2011, 03:01 PM
I don't know that she was talking about the creeper. I think she was talking about the spammer :o

Oy...too much going on in one thread. Sorry!

gaypalmsprings
05-13-2011, 04:13 PM
How do we report a BM?

Cooter
05-13-2011, 05:19 PM
photographically.

Rose
05-13-2011, 05:51 PM
Oy...too much going on in one thread. Sorry!

reporting a private message from (a member without any posts) via a PM to Countrygurl was the only way to report a person to her. You were on the right track.

Rose
05-13-2011, 05:52 PM
How do we report a BM?

Contact Dr. Oz